Inviting people over is fun! I enjoy every aspect of it, from planning the guest list, choosing the date, selecting the menu, finding new recipes, setting the table, cooking and finally the conversation during the course of the meal.
To me entertaining is an occasion. When I invite someone to my home I want them to feel special. Anyone can casually put a few things together and have a nice dinner or lunch. Fewer people will take the time for something more than casual arrangements. I prefer to take a more formal approach.
This often means place card holders at each place indicating where every person sits at the table. I have a nice collection to choose from – silver, crystal, porcelain, and plastic. There is never a mix up of where one should sit.
Menus are another nice thing to use at dinner. They can be a creative way to let people know what to expect at dinner.
Sterling flatware, china, crystal, pressed napkins and tablecloths are all luxuries to make the meal special. I like the feel of these items as much as I like their appearance. Even with one’s eyes closed it is possible to tell the difference between a sterling spoon and a plain metal spoon.
A seasonal arrangement on the table, and candles complete the mood. Time for the conversation to begin.
All the preparations may take longer, but my guests are worth the extra effort. How do you like to entertain?